I can't say where but I was helping someone look thru somethings and she came across pictures of her adopted son that died pretty young. My mind went to the birthmother who has lost two children to adoption and how one of them is dead. Wondering if she ever tried to search for her children? Wondering if she has ever thought that one of them could be dead? I am wondering if the birthmother is still alive? If the adoptive Mom is elderly and alive.. I guess there is a chance that she could still be living too. I just can't imagine not searching... I just can't imagine never knowing the outcome of my children's life... and I just can't imagine learning that my child is dead.