tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6684198844095157210.post7105691290616508028..comments2023-10-09T09:11:30.032-05:00Comments on birthmomtalks: one more monthbirthmothertalkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17690158739622745922noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6684198844095157210.post-80904538390924842302009-08-13T12:23:37.062-05:002009-08-13T12:23:37.062-05:00Thanks for your comment on my blog:
One thing that...Thanks for your comment on my blog:<br /><i>One thing that I like to tell all adoptive parents is that if the birth parents have regrets it's not so much about you as their parents. The regret (if any) is going to be more about the loss of them being the child's parents.</i><br /><br />That was helpful for me to hear. The layered dynamics and perceptions running through our triads are ongoing surprises to me.<br /><br />The better I know our kids birthparents the more I care about them, worry about them, grieve for them. I'm acutely aware that the source of my greatest joy (my kids) is the source of their deepest pain. This, even though both BMs maintain that they made the right decision for themselves and their babies at the time. <br /><br />I enjoy your blog.Sally Bacchettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14765341603688023981noreply@blogger.com