tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6684198844095157210.post2076750298654051710..comments2023-10-09T09:11:30.032-05:00Comments on birthmomtalks: divorcebirthmothertalkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17690158739622745922noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6684198844095157210.post-24206610586109254782011-01-14T06:22:03.226-06:002011-01-14T06:22:03.226-06:00Uhh... I know exactly what you're talking abou...Uhh... I know exactly what you're talking about here. Oh it irks me too. My son's dad did the same thing, tried very hard to insist on my son spending an equal amount of time with him to avoid providing child support, not because he actually wanted to spend time with and raise his son.<br /><br />The sickest part of that behavior is I wasn't even making him pay any court mandated child support! I left it up to him to contribute.<br /><br />In the end, the only time my son spent/spends with his dad is time he wants to spend there. Although I always encouraged a relationship, I never, ever forced it. And big surprise, kids don't really enjoy hanging out all that much with people who only want them there because they are trying to get out of paying for them.Campbellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13600505149020853906noreply@blogger.com